If you’re here, it means you care—and that’s the most critical first step. You don’t have to stand by and wait for things to get worse. With the right approach, you can encourage your loved one to seek help and begin their recovery journey today
Your loved one may be in denial about their addiction, or they may feel too ashamed to ask for help. That’s why your role is so important. By taking action now, you can help them before things spiral further out of control.
Addiction is not just about substance use—it’s about the emotional pain and trauma that often fuel the behaviour. Your loved one may be using alcohol or drugs as a way to escape stress, anxiety, depression, or past trauma. Without addressing the root causes, it’s difficult for them to break the cycle on their own.
Their substance use is affecting their work, relationships, or finances.
They deny they have a problem, even when confronted with evidence.
They have lost control over their drinking or drug use, despite attempts to cut back.
Their health is deteriorating—physically or mentally—due to substance use.
They become aggressive, manipulative, or deceitful when confronted about their addiction.
They rely on you financially because of their substance use.
They isolate themselves or only socialize in settings where substances are involved.
One of the most common challenges for family members is unintentionally enabling addiction. If you find yourself constantly covering for their mistakes, giving them money, or making excuses for their behavior, it may be time to establish firm boundaries
Many family members give money to their addicted loved one, believing it will help them “get back on track.” Unfortunately, this often funds further substance use. Instead, offer non-monetary support, like paying directly for food or necessities rather than handing over cash.
Addiction thrives in secrecy and shame. Let your loved one know that you are here to support them, not judge them. Choose calm, private moments to talk, and avoid confrontational language.
If you drink heavily or use substances recreationally, it will be much harder to encourage your loved one to quit. Creating a sober, supportive environment can make a significant difference in their willingness to change.
You don’t have to figure this out on your own. Speaking to an addiction specialist can provide guidance on the best approach for encouraging your loved one to seek help.
Our team will go over the details you provide about your loved one’s substance use and current situation.
One of our addiction specialists will reach out to discuss the best approach for encouraging your loved one to accept treatment.
If they are open to receiving help, we will arrange a consultation and recovery plan to begin treatment right away. If they are resistant, we’ll provide guidance on interventions and alternative steps to encourage change.
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